This is a poem about an imaginary friend, a provider of comfort and a sounding board for those unhappy moments in childhood.
As usual with these things some are my experiences (the budgie, the reading) and others belong to the rest of my year. I never had to wear a blazer, just a nylon sweater that fitted like clingfilm. There is more about school ponds elsewhere on this blog but I never went in one, by choice or otherwise
My imaginary friend was called Johnny Kettle and lived over the back. I hope I haven’t broken any rules disclosing that.
When they ripped up my homework Johnny was there
Crouched behind the shed so none saw my tears
In cobwebs and nettles I learned not to care
They’ll tire, he said. Their hurt’s driven by fear
When I missed penalties. When my budgie died
When I had to read in assembly and choked
‘Be like a mirror, though you’re crying inside.’
‘When you’re thrown in the pond and your blazer’s soaked.’
We’d talk by torchlight. Johnny wouldn’t reveal
Himself. His whispered guidance brought only good
We spoke less. My confidence grew, my wounds healed
What was left unspoken was understood
Dismissed as a fad. Gone when childhood ends
It was my privilege to call him a friend
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this gave me chills – loved it. every year, some of my young students, 1 or 2, will tell me about their imaginary friend and i do my best to honor their friends.
Thanks Beth. Yes I think it’s a very important part of development and it’s easy for some adults to be quick to dismiss and that can be harmful…
our kids find a little rock with their name on it when they come in the room each day. this is to teach them to recognize their names and to take their own attendance. (3 and 4 year olds). i always make a rock for their ‘friend’ as well if requested.
That’s a great idea
I never had an imaginary friend, but when I grew up, I regretted that. Being an only child, I spent so much time alone in my bedroom, it would have nice to have had company.
Best wishes, Pete.
I love this and I’m sure it resonates with many as it did with me. Thanks so much for sharing.
That’s kind. Thank you 😊
For sure my friend, happy to support!